A Healthy Life and Business

There is no real competition in most home businesses because most of those people are playing, “follow the follower”. Instead of following a proven leader, or becoming the leader themselves

It’s easier to inspire a group of people than it is a single individual.

If everybody you talk with buys your product or joins your business, you are NOT talking to enough people.

You can easily gain and maintain control of a conversation or presentation when you know how to ask good questions.  The type of questions that are designed to lead people in a specific direction.

Nothing can take the place of experience. If reading a book, going to a seminar or listening to a CD was all that we needed to be successful, then we would be earning a very small wage.

Remember, Promote Yourself!

John R. Barrow

My Orange Leads homepage  http://tinyurl.com/dh4×2f

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Facebook    http://profile.to/johnrbarrow/ 

Twitter        http://twitter.com/JohnBarrow

Audiobooks  http://arrowaudiobooks.com

Previous tips

3-3-09     http://tinyurl.com/af2ls6                           4-07-09   http://tinyurl.com/d5bwpj

3-10-09  http://tinyurl.com/cdjp58                            4-14-09    http://tinyurl.com/ce6xwl

3-17-09   http://tinyurl.com/cjsrpr                            4-21-09    http://tinyurl.com/denfyr  

3-24-09   http://tinyurl.com/cwbk56                          4-28-09 http://tinyurl.com/c5sne9

3-31-09  http://tinyurl.com/djry9p                             5-5-09   http://tinyurl.com/casmng

5-12-09 http://tinyurl.com/q6lc3s                              5-19-09  http://tinyurl.com/psh6ee
5-26-09 http://tinyurl.com/qqcgvl                              6-2-09  http://tinyurl.com/mys68b

6-9-09  http://tinyurl.com/mywcvx                             6-16 http://tinyurl.com/nr2e53

6-23-09  http://tinyurl.com/nnv9aq                            6-30-09  http://bit.ly/17YBmx

7-7-09  http://tinyurl.com/mxcobs                             7-14-09  http://tinyurl.com/mt9ael

7-21-09 http://tinyurl.com/ncllmm                             7-28-09  http://bit.ly/2AWkTO

8-4-09  http://tinyurl.com/mgdns7                              8-11-09  http://bit.ly/7t8lw

8-18-09   http://bit.ly/23zeD2                                          8-25-09   http://bit.ly/VI93d

9-1-09  http://bit.ly/10R7e9                                             9-8-09   http://bit.ly/2vQn7C

9-22-09  http://bit.ly/Es7Wj                                             9-29-09  http://bit.ly/1yvo0w

10-13-09  http://bit.ly/nvFGz                                           10-20-09  http://bit.ly/psEUk

10-27 http://bit.ly/rIFbr                                                    11-3-09  http://bit.ly/1KEiWW

12-1-09  http://tinyurl.com/ycvrhv5

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If you lack confidence, you either lack training, coaching and experience or you could simply be in the wrong type of business.

Once someone completely trusts you, you can sell him almost anything at any
price.  Never abuse that trust, or it will be gone forever!

Master the basics and the complicated becomes uncomplicated.  Seems simple but the ‘basics’ is your foundation.

Most people decide quit right before they are about to experience success. Obviously, not knowing success is just around the bend.  Don’t be one of them.  Keep on pushing, you can do it!

 I would like to recommend a book this week,  The 4-Hour Work Week,  by Timothy Ferriss  The 4-Hour Work Week explains what a lifestyle entrepreneur is and why you should want to become one.  I have this on audio, and is a great listen.

 Remember, Promote Yourself!

John R. Barrow

My Orange Leads homepage  http://tinyurl.com/dh4×2f

Previous  week’s tips

3-3-09     http://tinyurl.com/af2ls6                            4-07-09   http://tinyurl.com/d5bwpj

3-10-09  http://tinyurl.com/cdjp58                             4-14-09    http://tinyurl.com/ce6xwl

3-17-09   http://tinyurl.com/cjsrpr                              4-21-09    http://tinyurl.com/denfyr  

3-24-09   http://tinyurl.com/cwbk56                           4-28-09 http://tinyurl.com/c5sne9

3-31-09  http://tinyurl.com/djry9p                              5-5-09   http://tinyurl.com/casmng

5-12-09 http://tinyurl.com/q6lc3s                               5-19-09  http://tinyurl.com/psh6ee

5-26-09 http://tinyurl.com/qqcgvl                               6-2-09  http://tinyurl.com/mys68b

6-9-09  http://tinyurl.com/mywcvx                              6-16 http://tinyurl.com/nr2e53

6-23-09  http://tinyurl.com/nnv9aq                            6-30-09  http://bit.ly/17YBmx

7-7-09  http://tinyurl.com/mxcobs                             7-14-09  http://tinyurl.com/mt9ael

7-21-09 http://tinyurl.com/ncllmm                                 7-28-09  http://bit.ly/2AWkTO

8-4-09  http://tinyurl.com/mgdns7                                 8-11-09  http://bit.ly/7t8lw

8-18-09   http://bit.ly/23zeD2                                            8-25-09   http://bit.ly/VI93d

9-1-09  http://bit.ly/10R7e9                                                9-8-09   http://bit.ly/2vQn7C

9-22-09  http://bit.ly/Es7Wj                                                 9-29-09  http://bit.ly/1yvo0w

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If you have been in business for even a short while, you have probably had the opportunity to deal with a customer that wasn’t happy.  You know the type, either the dinner was not quite right, or the service wasn’t fast enough, whatever, their world just might end because you didn’t completely satisfy their needs. 

You know the type, and many times they are habitual complainers, the type that when you see them you let out a sigh!  What a drain they can be.  I’ve been in business the best part of three decades; yes I have seen my share.  What I’ve done is to almost make it a game, believe me I always try to get everything right the first time, but occasionally something happens.

Now if this is a ‘habitual complainer’, many times they want to argue and be abusive to you or your staff.  The best way to avoid this is to ‘kill them with kindness’, don’t argue sympathize.  First thank them for bringing the problem to your attention, apologize for any inconvenience, and be willing to make it right.  You must say this with complete sincerity.

Usually, when you approach the person like this it will disarm them; it is hard to argue with somebody that is giving you sympathy and understanding.  They were looking to make a scene, but if you show that you are reasonable, they generally will be also.  I know you’re thinking that customer is wrong.  Yes they may be, but put yourself in their position, think about it.

Now if the customer is abusive of you or your staff even after trying to calmly resolve the situation, simply tell them their attitude is unacceptable and you don’t need their business.  That will get attention.
 
The best book I have ever read on human interaction and communication was written by Dale Carnegie, titled “How to Win Friends & Influence People”

I strongly recommend it, especially for business people, whether you are a one person business or work for a large corporation.

Remember Promote Yourself!

John Barrow

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Every Tuesday I post some tips for networkers.  These are generic in nature, and can be used in many other occupations.

 Make friends to make friends.  If you try to make ‘friends’ with people just to get their business, you will end up with little of both.  I have many friends that do business with me, I also have many that don’t, but they all know what business I am in.

I do tell everybody what I’m up to, what products, services and so on that I offer, that’s just good business.  However I don’t try to recruit them.  Friends share with each other, when they ask questions they express interest.  I will then give them the info they are interested in, perhaps offer to show them my opportunity.  But at their pace.

 Do not try to ‘fire hose’ your friends, friends are too valuable, if they have interest they will let you know.

Keep it Simple - Don’t Overanalyze.  I have found that it is easy to spend too much time thinking about what to do.  ‘Just do something’, I tell myself, action is needed.  A mentor of mine told me to use A - C - A - A

Action  Take action, do something

Critique  Look at the results.  Preferably with sponsor / mentor

Adjust   Make small adjustments, based on desired results.

Action   Take action again.  With these small adjustments.

This is simple, should be done frequently, only spend a few minutes on the critique, and don’t change too quickly.

 Technology vs People Skills  Having technological skills are important, no doubt.  With sites like Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and dozens more, technology is easier to handle.  However having people skills is immensely important, and often overlooked.  You must develop leadership, and relationships to build a large, solid team.

 This is where personal development is important.  Books like ‘The Magic of Thinking Big’ by David Schwartz and Dale Carnegie’s classic ‘How To Win Friends and Influence People’ are two of my favorites.

John Barrow

 PS  previous tips

3-24-09   http://tinyurl.com/cwbk56

3-17-09   http://tinyurl.com/cjsrpr

3-10-09  http://tinyurl.com/cdjp58

3-3-09     http://tinyurl.com/af2ls6

Tuesday’s Tips 3-31-09

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Once in a while I will recommend some audio books that I think offer good value, here are three that can be very helpful.  I like the audio versions at ArrowAudioBooks.com due to the portability.

Stealing Your Life: The Ultimate Identity Theft Prevention Plan

Frank W. Abagnale

 Considering the fact that a fresh victim of identity theft is hit in the U.S. every four seconds, ‘Stealing Your Life’ is the reference everyone needs, by an unsurpassed authority on the latest identity-theft schemes

When Frank Abagnale trains law enforcement officers for the FBI’s National Academy about identity theft, he asks agents for their addresses and nothing more.  The next day, he returns with everything he would need to steal their lives Social Security numbers, dates of birth, current salary, checking account numbers, the names of everyone in their family, and more.  This illustrates how easy it is for anyone from anywhere in the world to assume our identity and, in a matter of hours; devastate our lives in ways that can take years to recover from.

 Stealing Your Life: The Ultimate Identity Theft Prevention

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 10 Steps to Prepare & Deliver a Powerful Presentation

David Julian Price

This book is perfect for people who need to give a great presentation, but do not have a lot of time to prepare. The formula allows you to be yourself and have your own style but will quickly get you to a finished presentation that you can be proud of!

Ideal for:

* Presentations to colleagues at work;

* Technical presentations;

* Presentations to meetings at clubs, associations or local government;

* Sales presentations;

* Speeches at weddings, birthdays or special events.

  10 Steps to Prepare & Deliver a Powerful Presentation

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Freakonomics

Stephen D Levitt

In Freakonomics, they explore the hidden side of . . . well, everything. The inner workings of a crack gang. The truth about real-estate agents. The secrets of the Klu Klux Klan.

What unites all these stories is a belief that the modern world is even more intriguing than we think. All it takes is a new way of looking, and Freakonomics will redefine the way we view the modern world.

Freakonomics (Unabridged)

Identity Theft - Audiobook

 John Barrow

Previous recommendations

 Seth Godin - Permission Marketing great info, plus The 4 Hour Work Week   http://tinyurl.com/cd56o6

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FEAR - The GREAT MOTIVATOR

What motivates you?  Stop and think about it, what does it take to really motivate you.

For most people it is not as easy as it sounds. Many people find themselves motivated by failure.  They are afraid that they might fail at a new endeavor, be it a job or a new business opportunity.  Many times so severely that they become paralyzed to the point of inaction, so they don’t even try.

Other people are also motivated by fear; in this case it is fear of loosing something, such as money, job, or in today’s economy their house.  In this case fear is good and can be a good motivator to get a better job, or start a new business.  Or to finally take action in that business you have been “trying out”

The Fear of Success, yes the fear of success!  At first that sounds strange doesn’t it?  How can anybody be afraid to succeed at something? 

Well it is real, and to some people, just as paralyzing. They may think “I don’t deserve success” or “I’m not good enough” and not even try.  Many of us, while we were growing up constantly heard negative connotations about money, and the people that had money.  Sub consciously we have been programmed to think that way, “MONEY IS EVIL”

What do we do to change this way of thinking?  Look around, think of all the good things you can do with money, not only for your family, but church, charities, the list goes on.

I have found that spending time daily on self-improvement is a great way to start.  Invest in yourself, there are fantastic dividends to be paid.  There are so many books on the subject, I would start will some of the classics, such as ‘Think and Grow Rich’ by Napoleon Hill.  Many times while I’m driving I’ll turn off the radio and listen to audiobooks, a good way to consolidate time.

Spend some time to find out what your fears are, only them can you face them, and conquer them, and receive what you truly deserve SUCCESS!

John Barrow

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Today I have a couple of powerful audiobooks for you. Listen to these books and you will come out with some great ideas for you business and life.

PERMISSION MARKETING   by  Seth Godin

Instead of annoying potential customers by interrupting their most coveted commodity time,

Permission Marketing offers consumers incentives to accept advertising voluntarily.

Does every single marketing effort you create encourage a learning relationship with your customers?  Does it invite customers to “raise their hands” and start communicating?

Permission Marketing

 The 4-Hour Work Week     by  Timothy Ferris

 The 4-Hour Work Week explains what a lifestyle entrepreneur is and why you should want to become one.  It teaches you how to kill your job and design a life, the 80/20 rule and how it increases productivity, how to replace your dreams with goals, and more.

The 4-Hour Work Week: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich

PS. Download these books and Upload the Knowledge!

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One of my favorite ways to keep my knowledge expanding is through using audiobooks.  Be it motivational, business, self-help, or novel.  All titles are downloadable to mp3, CD, ipod. 

ArrowAudioBooks.com can help with a huge list of  downloadable AudioBooks.  You can listen while exercising, relaxing, or while commuting or on vacation.  When you opt-in, you even get a discount!

These are a couple of my favorites.  Just hit your browser back button to come back here.

The Irresistible Offer        Mark Joyner

Jim Rohn Lessons of the Seasons: - Smoothe Mixx

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